The Aerogram’s Quick Picks of the Week: Writer & Editor Ayesha Mattu

Each week, we’re asking different writers, artists and others to share some of their current favorites. This week we feature picks from writer and editor Ayesha Mattu. She is a writer, editor and international development consultant who has worked in the field of women’s human rights since 1998. Her first book, Love, InshAllah: The Secret Love Lives of American Muslim Women, was featured globally by media including the New York Times, NPR, the BBC, Washington Post, Guardian, Times of India, Dawn Pakistan, and Jakarta Post. She was selected a ‘Muslim Leader of Tomorrow’ by the UN Alliance of Civilizations and has served on the boards of IDEX, the Women’s Funding Network, and World Pulse. Ayesha is an alumna of Voices of Our Nations writers’ workshop and a member of the San Francisco Writers’ Grotto. Her second book — the companion anthology Salaam, Love: American Muslim Men on Love, Sex & Intimacy (Beacon Press) — will be released in February 2014. Connect with Ayesha through Twitter and her website.

A few of my favorite things:

1. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie – “The danger of a single story”

This is the one TED talk I come back to time and again for the reminder to look deeper and ask questions each time a single narrative occupies the national (or international) stage. Which, given the current political climate, is every day.

2. VONA/Voices of Our Nations writers’ workshop

This workshop changed my life. I encourage all writers of color to apply; incredible mentorship, craft development, community and networking.

3. Beats for Bangladesh: A Benefit Album In Solidarity with the Garment Workers of Rana Plaza

What I listen to while I write. Curated by hip-hop artist Brooklyn Shanti, and political activist/writer Tanzila ‘Taz’ Ahmed in support of a great cause.

4. “The Parallel Universe Where My Brother Lives”

Ali Mattu’s award-winning piece on his brother’s (and my cousin’s) suicide and the taboo of mental illness in the South Asian community. A poignant, important read.

5. Mutha Magazine

Mutha Magazine: diverse writers, honest perspectives, and smokin’ hot writing. Two fantastic pieces: Shanthi Sekaran’s “Life Sentence: On writing, motherhood & the truth” and Sharline Chiang’s searing “Beyond the Baby Blues.”

6. The Still Point of the Turning World: A Mother’s Story by Emily Rapp

A clear-eyed, eviscerating memoir on what it means to love and let go. Emily.Rapp

7. Muslima — International Museum of Women

Curated by novelist Samina Ali, this online exhibition features Muslim women’s art and voices from around the world. Muslim women are speaking. Are you listening?

8. Raw pumpkin and cranberry ginger cream parfaits

Because, delicious. (Recipe)

9. The Married Kama Sutra by Simon Rich and Farley Katz

It’s funny because it’s true. (via Design Taxi) dishwasher.position

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